As Father's Day approaches (it will be this coming Sunday), I find myself reflecting on the many years that I was able to spend with my own dad. While I could never claim that he was my best friend I will stand firm on the notion that he was my confidant, advisor, mentor, and fan. That doesn't mean of course, that I always agreed with him. But I did always respect him.
I feel certain that he knew how I felt about him. There wasn't a time that we had contact after I became an adult that I didn't tell him that I loved him. I don't remember a time when he didn't tell me that he loved me. We weren't afraid of hugs or even affectionate pecks on the cheek.
What I remember most is that he loved God and my mother more than he loved me. But I understood that was how it was supposed to be. I also understood that he expected me to learn to love God and my wife more than I loved anyone else.
There is little doubt but what I'm a preacher today because of his influence. He loved preaching. He loved the people of the church even when they didn't love him. I don't remember ever hearing him say anything bad about the church...even the ones that mistreated him. I suspect that there were times he would have liked to tell some elders how he really felt, but, as far as I know, he never did. But he also expected to have the same respect returned to him.
I'd like to know how many children's lives he changed. As a school teacher, pricnicpal, superintendent, preacher, Bible class teacher, child care provider, and parent there is no way we will ever know. But I know this...I am a lucky man to have had the father I had. He made a positive impact on me that will last for my lifetime and quite possibly the lifetime of my own children and grandchildren. I love my Daddy!!!
A simple thank you seems appropriate for those of you who have chosen to follow my ramblings. I'm not trying to change the world with what I write, I'm just trying to share with those who care to read, my view of things that are important to me. I hope you are blessed half as much by reading these posts as I am by writing them.
Thursday, June 14, 2012
Monday, May 7, 2012
In the 37+ years that Sue and I have been married, we've moved many times. Sometimes our moves were from one house to another in the same town. Other times we were "given the opportunity" by Uncle Sam to move across country or to the other side of the world. In our ministry experience we've been blessed to be part of the work in 5 different states. Each time we move we are reminded of the fact that, no matter where we go, no matter how difficult the transition, no matter what our initial response is, our great God is there, ready to make great things happen through our somewhat weak efforts.
Now that we are facing another move we are being challenged again. This time it will be a different opportunity with new faces and names who, like so many others simply want to serve the living God.
Thank you Lord for providing for all of our needs and so many of our desires as we make our home in a different place. Please bless those we are leaving behind as they press forward with their lives and become a blessing to the next person who comes to work with them. Please give us the ability to make new friends and provide friendship to the new people we will encounter in our new home. Amen.
Now that we are facing another move we are being challenged again. This time it will be a different opportunity with new faces and names who, like so many others simply want to serve the living God.
Thank you Lord for providing for all of our needs and so many of our desires as we make our home in a different place. Please bless those we are leaving behind as they press forward with their lives and become a blessing to the next person who comes to work with them. Please give us the ability to make new friends and provide friendship to the new people we will encounter in our new home. Amen.
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
Give it up for Lent
The observation of Lent in much of the Christian world begins this coming Wednesday, February 22nd. It will conclude on Saturday, April 7th, the day before Easter. The concept of Lent is one that is foreign to most members of the churches of Christ. However, I believe it is one that ought to be very close to the hearts of every Christian.
Many people, who don’t observe Lent, believe that the Roman Catholic Church is responsible for instituting this 40 day period of soul-searching and repentance. Others are aware only of the debauchery of Carnival or Mardi Gras that leads up to Lent.
Certainly the existence of such a document doesn’t mean that we are to enforce the observance of Lent. However, it does serve as a historical reminder that our early brothers and sisters did in fact set aside specific times to re-dedicate themselves to the Lord.
I am convinced that the times in which we live have numbed us to a certain degree concerning our dedication to the Lord’s work. We often find ourselves so wrapped up in the activities of our secular lives that we neglect even the common courtesy of saying “thank you” before our meals. Our lives are consumed with events on the calendar that have nothing to do with serving God or offering him the best of what we are and have.
The season of Lent was designed to be a solemn reminder of the promise each individual made when they submitted themselves to baptism for the forgiveness of sins. It was supposed to be a time set aside from the concerns and details of daily life, so that the believers could refocus on their first love.
I am not advocating that we adopt the rituals of the Lenten season. I am however, putting forth the idea that 21st century followers of Jesus have got to somehow be truly, “transformed by the renewing of the mind,” (Rom 12:2) instead of “conforming to this world” (Rom 12:1). If that means that you set aside a specific amount of time where you abstain from something that tends to pull you toward the world, then let that be your Lenten season.
Paul celebrated this idea when he wrote, “I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me” (Gal 2:20). If there is anything that’s more important than allowing Christ to live in you, please, “give it up for Lent!” You are loved. (Dan Boggs)
Thursday, January 5, 2012
Fans or Players
In his book, "Not a Fan," Kyle Idleman reminds us that following Jesus does not equal being a fan. A fan sits on the sidelines and watches, cheers, and even calls the team "his/hers." Disciples however, are actually in the game, actively participating in the life they are following, and working hard at helping others to move from just being fans to being disciples.
As I've read Idleman's words I've been re-motivated to get off the bench. In fact, I'm formulating the majority of my sermons for 2012 with the concepts that he presents in his book. The simple truth is, only about 20% of all people who call themselves Christians are really more than just fans (I believe that's a generous estimate). The sad part of that lack of enthusiastic involvement is that the individuals who are fans most often believe they are much more than that.
I'm convinced that if we could move Christians to do more than show up for church services and give money we would see Christianity quickly becoming a force to be reckoned with in the world. Instead, we whine and cry because the government won't "let" us put crosses on hillsides. Perhaps if we were to place ourselves "all in" in terms of being disciples instead of just fans, we wouldn't be facing the seemingly growing distaste for Christianity. Perhaps, if people saw that we were serious about being true followers instead of just claiming to be followers, they would want the same excitement and enthusiasm they saw in us.
"Not a Fan" is a great book that challenges the very core of our "religion." It is a renewed call to, "take up your cross and follow (Him)."
As I've read Idleman's words I've been re-motivated to get off the bench. In fact, I'm formulating the majority of my sermons for 2012 with the concepts that he presents in his book. The simple truth is, only about 20% of all people who call themselves Christians are really more than just fans (I believe that's a generous estimate). The sad part of that lack of enthusiastic involvement is that the individuals who are fans most often believe they are much more than that.
I'm convinced that if we could move Christians to do more than show up for church services and give money we would see Christianity quickly becoming a force to be reckoned with in the world. Instead, we whine and cry because the government won't "let" us put crosses on hillsides. Perhaps if we were to place ourselves "all in" in terms of being disciples instead of just fans, we wouldn't be facing the seemingly growing distaste for Christianity. Perhaps, if people saw that we were serious about being true followers instead of just claiming to be followers, they would want the same excitement and enthusiasm they saw in us.
"Not a Fan" is a great book that challenges the very core of our "religion." It is a renewed call to, "take up your cross and follow (Him)."
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